Today I woke up and to be absolutely honest, I felt angry and miserable as if a dark shadow were dragging the life out of me. I do everything I could to escape this shadow that clings my soul from time to time.
Sometimes, I feel I’ve scared it for good, but it (the dark shadow) always comes back. And I want to hide, but if I hide, it stays because then I become the prey. And I see it (the dark shadow) growing bigger, stronger and scarier.
It (the dark shadow) becomes so big, I fear it might swallow me.
And it is in those moments that I have to fake strength to face it, so at least I manage to keep at a safe distance, so it doesn’t hurt me or others.
Sometimes, I feel like I live a lie. Pretending to be “normal”.
People around me do not realize for a moment my truth. They see a young, jovial man, who seems to have it all. If they only knew my dark secret, if they only knew how much energy it takes to get out of bed, push myself out of the flat, to get in the tube, to see people, and to talk to people.
I woke up worrying about my blog, the likes, the comments, the stats, and the growing page, in other, I was becoming obsessed, and full of myself.
The narcissist part of me, Yone-narcissist, was smiling and telling me how great and smart she was.
I can’t stand her. I’m sure you won’t either. She needed to go..! and she needed to go fast..! The sooner she leaves, the better I would feel.
We needed to find a cure. And to cure sudden sickness we need strong medicine, so I decided to spend a day without Internet.
First, Yone-chan, my inner child, resisted. And although I explained to her it was for our own, she burst into tears. That’s when Yone-Oni showed up. Because everytime Yone-chan is hurt Yone-oni comes to the rescue. Yone-oni is a natural protector, despite her bad temper. And I was expecting a fight with her (Yone-oni), when she started crying, as well, saying how bored she would be without the internet.
I tried to convince Yone-Oni promising her ice cream and having a lovely walk in a park, Some of my other personalities started smiling encouraging Yone-Oni to accept the deal, at least fourteen of them seemed to agree.
Then I told them we would buy ourselves a nice book.
“Another one??????” all my multiple personalities shouted all at the same time
“But this will be different” I replied
“Different??” they asked
“Yes, because this will be a book for us to enjoy. To have fun” I said.
That’s when my multiple personalities stared at me, all the same time, they seemed truly concerned.
“I’m serious” I told them defensively
But they all just stared at me as if I had gone mad.
“Are you ok?” asked Yone-Oni with real apprehension in her eyes.
“I promised you, I’m fine” I said
“She delirious” they all said in unison.
Then they all rushed around the house.
One brought me a blanket to keep me warm, although, in Japan, September is still quite warm.
A group of cheeky ones decided that the best for me was to take Oji chan’s soup (I will tell you what Ojichan’s soup is in another post) then they started “cooking”
I don’t remember Ojichan’s soup having so many vegetables 😐 in it. But what matters it’s their good intention. I guess.
Another group of my personalities decided I needed music, so they played one of my favorites melodies.
Another one decided I needed a cuddle, and another personality said that what I needed was kisses on my forehead, another said it (what I was needed) was getting my hair brushed.
They still fighting. So, I haven’t gotten either a cuddle, kiss or my hair brushed.
The house was becoming a mess.
Groups were discussing how to calm me down just in case of a breakdown.
They were all talking, and I was about to explode, when we heard a sound in the door.
“It’s him” they said, and they all run to hide and to look their best
Even Yone Oni was putting lipstick on.
“What?” She asked defensively.
He came through the door with such a lovely smile that even Yone-Oni melted down.
“What a stunt..! We have done great” said Yone-narcissist smiling happily at me.
“You” I said “That’s it. You gotta go”
I unplugged the internet, and it will remain this way until Yone-narcissist goes back to sleep 😊